A wise pastor once said, “Holidays that revolve around
relationships are risky.” It’s
true. Whether you are talking about
Mother’s Day, Father’s Day, etc. you could potentially be confronted with
painful emotional issues. For instance,
you may be facing your first Mother’s Day since she unexpectedly passed away. Or, perhaps you have an estranged
relationship with your mother. I’m not
ignorant or unsympathetic of the anguish that could be churning either in your
heart or in the heart of someone close to you.
Without making light of any of these aspects, I want to
present God’s standard. The Bible says,
“Honor your father and mother, as the Lord your God has commanded you, so that
you may live long and that it may go well with you in the land the Lord your
God is giving you” (Deuteronomy 5:16). Today,
I want to bring up some of the theological notions regarding honoring Mom (and
Dad), and then tomorrow, I plan to narrow my focus to honoring my own dear
mother.
To begin with, what does it mean to honor your father and
mother? Got questions.org is such an
invaluable website to consult. They have
an article on this; let me quote part of it:
“Honoring your father and mother is being respectful in
word and action and having an inward attitude of esteem for their
position. The Greek Word for honor means
“to revere, prize, and value.” Honor is
giving respect not only for merit but also for rank. For example, some Americans may disagree with
the President’s decisions, but they should still respect his position as leader
of their country. Similarly, children of
all ages should honor their parents, regardless of whether or not their parents
“deserve” honor.
I could go several different directions with this subject
matter, but this same article goes on to ask exactly how a parent is to be honored. “Obviously, we are commanded to honor our
parents, but how? Honor them with both
actions and attitudes (Mark 7:6). Honor
their unspoken as well as spoken wishes.
“A wise son heeds his father’s instruction, but a mocker does not listen
to rebuke” (Proverbs 13:1). In Matthew
15:3-9, Jesus reminded the Pharisees of the command of God to honor their
father and mother. They were obeying the
letter of the law, but they had added their own traditions that essentially
overruled it. While they honored their
parents in word, their actions proved their real motive. Honor is more than lip service. The word “honor” in this passage is a verb
and, as such, demands a right action.”
To conclude, there is one last question I want to pose. We’ve already read verses from Exodus 20 and
Ephesians 6 that speak of this concept of long life being given as a reward;
but we also know the good can certainly die young. So what are we to make of this? Once again, got questions.org is helpful:
Kevin
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