Several
weeks ago, something interesting happened at my work. I was in the back one morning, in my own
world at the time; but without warning, a lemon hit me in the side of the
neck. I hadn’t noticed that one of my
coworkers was in a particularly silly mood, and was horsing around. She had thrown the lemon, and had meant to
hit another employee, but her aim was off, and it hit me instead. My coworker was absolutely mortified at this. She apologized profusely.
At the end of her work shift, as I said
goodbye, she apologized yet again. Each
time, I responded with forgiveness. Interestingly,
the next time I saw her a few days later, she continued with her same tune of
sorrow for the lemon episode (which I had all but forgotten at this
point). I had forgiven her, but she was
evidently having significant difficulty in forgiving herself.
Can
you relate? Have you ever found yourself
in, as one pastor called it, “spiritual depression” over a regrettable episode
of sin? In those instances, have you
thought to yourself, or perhaps even said, “I know God has forgiven me, but I
can’t forgive myself”? I have to admit
to you that I know what it’s like to be in the grip of guilt. It’s easy to wallow in guilt, shame, and
self-pity. But, if you are in Christ,
you are pardoned, cleansed, and forgiven of all sin. That doesn’t mean that you won’t face the
consequences of your selfish choices, but the fact still remains that the blood
of Jesus has washed you clean. The Bible
declares, “If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just and will forgive us
our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness” (1 John 1:9).
We can
take that promise of forgiveness from the Word of God to the bank. Yet many of us place our feelings of guilt
above God’s declaration. Like the lemon
episode at my work, the proclamation of forgiveness should suffice. To hold on to the unforgiveness, therefore,
is to elevate the guilty feelings over the promise of God. We must intentionally choose to be liberated
by the truth from the Word of God, rather than hold on to the guilt. Not that this is necessarily easy. As I said in the last blog, it will take
vigilance. Whenever you realize you have
slipped into this thinking, stop and remind yourself that God has chosen
forgiveness, and that settles it.
Guilt
can be incredibly powerful. I have found
that it can eat you up, if you let it.
It’s easy to decide to not forgive ourselves of something that we have
done. But to live like this is to live
in self-made chains that God wants us to be free from. Since God has extended His forgiveness to His
children, what right do we have to disregard this invitation? Matthew West has a good song on this. In his song titled “Grace Wins”, he sings,
“There’s a war between guilt and grace, and they’re fighting for a sacred
space, but I’m living proof, grace wins every time.” I can echo my “amen” to that!
Kevin
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