I’ve had a lot of extra free time on my hands of late, as I’ve documented. Not long ago, I watched the 2018 film “Spider-Man: Into the Spider-verse”, and as with previous viewings, I thoroughly enjoyed it. At the end of the film, a Stan Lee quote is given: “That person who helps others simply because it should or must be done, and because it is right thing to do, is indeed without a doubt, a real superhero.”
This made me think of my dad. In fact, in 2015, when I spoke at Dad’s
memorial service I called my dad a superhero.
I made it clear that day (and I reiterate it again here today, this
designation is a massive compliment). Today
is my dad’s birthday, even if he is in Heaven.
Dad routinely helped others “because it is the right thing to do.” First and foremost, he served his wife, my
mother. I have seldom seen anyone in my
life who was so devoted to loving, cherishing, serving, and protecting his
spouse as my dad. He also consistently
helped his children, my brother and me.
I could tell story after story of how he did this. Furthermore, I could tell stories of how dad
selflessly helped his coworkers.
My dad’s passing was a difficult time in my life. This man who was always in my corner, who was
there to provide encouragement, love, and help was suddenly gone. I had to grieve this tremendous loss;
incidentally, maybe that’s a word of challenge for someone. You’ve lost a loved one, but you haven’t let
yourself mourn. You’ve buried it and
stuffed it down. You must give yourself
permission to grieve, to fully feel the intensity of the pain and the loss. To do otherwise isn’t healthy. Don’t misunderstand me: that’s not to say
that one ever truly over “gets over” the loss.
In many ways, it will stay with you; it will remain a part of your
story.
For example, I could write a whole blog on why I appreciate
the 2005 film “Batman Begins”; I
think it is the most underrated of the trilogy.
I happened to finish this movie again today, of all days. You may recall that, at the end of the film,
there is a bittersweet scene between Bruce Wayne and Rachel Dawes (played here
by Katie Holmes). Rachel states that
while she never stopped thinking about Bruce, he was not the same person; but
perhaps one day, when Gotham no longer needed Batman, the old Bruce would
return and they could be together. She
went on to make a statement that caused a wave of tears and grief to
unexpectedly hit me. She said to Bruce, “Your
father would be very proud of you, just like me.”
In conclusion, my recent overnight stay in an emergency room
was a reminder that tomorrow is not guaranteed.
I heard a program by Billy Graham and his team today; I resonated with
him when he said, something to the effect of, “We think death is coming to
others, but somehow not to us. But the
Bible says, ‘It is appointed for man to die once, but after this the judgment
[Hebrews 9:27].’” I confess I naively used
to think this; not anymore. These days
on Earth are fleeting and numbered. We
can’t afford to put off the spiritual decisions that need to be made. The next verse in Hebrews 9 says, “so Christ
was offered once to bear the sins of many.”
If you’ve never placed your faith in this Christ – the One who out of His
great love, willingly shed His blood for you – I urge you to do so. The Bible says, “Whoever calls on the name of
the Lord shall be saved.”
God bless,
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